Writing your vows may be the toughest part of preparing for the ceremony, however, choosing the readings comes in at a close second. Like with wedding vows, your readings should be chosen very carefully so as to express your love for one another in the most genuine way possible. Inspiration can come from poems
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Decide whether you want the readings to be read by you and your partner, the officiant, or by another person. Sometimes you might be given a reading by a friend or family member, which they will read, or you may write readings to each other, which you will read in turn. If you write something together you should also read it together.
For the readings, remember to practice as much as possible. The words should feel like second nature to you and flow off the tongue as if they were spontaneous. When you practice, be sure to speak loudly and clearly. Understand what it is you are reading (if it is not your own) so that you can really feel the words.
Go to your local library to read up on your favorite author or poet. This often serves as a great starting place for finding readings that you can relate to. You might also look online for books by favorite writers to serve as inspiration. Popular poets that you might consider include:
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