It goes without saying that practicing safe sex is a must. Having safe sex means taking the necessary precautions to protect you and your partner from sexually transmitted diseases; and if you're a woman, protecting yourself from unwanted pregnancy. Of course nothing is 100% safe but using condoms and other forms of protection will greatly decrease your risk of contracting HIV or other STDs.
Condoms
Condoms are known as a barrier device and are the most common method used to practice safe sex. They reduce both the risk of pregnancy and the spread of sexually transmitted diseases. Condoms are made from different materials but the most common material is latex. The only downside to using latex is that you '''cannot''' use oilbased lubricants such as KY or Astroglide.
The second most common material is polyurethane. These condoms are not as sensitive to temperature and have a longer shelf life. However, they are not as elastic as latex and can break easier. They are also more expensive. For those allergic to latex, lambskin condoms are available. However, there is a greater risk for contracting STDs because of pores in the material. It is also the most expensive.
Textured condoms can help increase pleasure for both partners. Ridges and studs can be found on the inside and outside of the condom making fun times for both. They can also be located in specific areas to hit a woman's g-spot. There's no reason why you can't be safe and have lots of fun at the same time.
Female Contraceptives
Female condoms are also available but are not as commonly used. They are just as effective as male condoms when used properly. Like male condoms, water or silicone-based lubricants can be used. The most common female contraceptive is birth control. Birth control is only effective against pregnancy. It '''should not''' be used to prevent STDs. Diaphragms also prevent pregnancy and can be used in conjunction with vaginal contraception jelly. A dental dam is a sheet of latex used when performing oral sex on a woman, or when performing anilingus.
Other Fun Ways to Be Safe
Well, abstinence is always one way to be safe, although it might not be as fun. But you can still get HIV from nonporous.
