Formal Wedding Style

Formal weddings are not for everyone, though they are the style of choice for those with impeccable taste -- or for those who wish to present themselves as such. The essence to capture is luxury, elegance, and glamour. Think flowing champagne,  caviar,  cigars,  and Bentleys. Pull out the crystal stemware  and fine china  since high class is the focal point and your motto should be "nothing but the best" -- within your budget, of course. Speaking of budget, formal weddings will cost more -- lots more. Reasons for being so pricey are that formal weddings typically take place in the evening (meaning that the reception site will cost more), the guest list consists of at least 100 people, if not more than 200 in most cases, and a multi-course sit-down dinner is also part of the act. Make it extra fancy with butlers in tuxedos  and white gloves  serving the meal on silver trays  to get the full effect.

Here are some of the other details that go into creating a formal wedding.

The Invitations Think traditional, 100% cotton or linen heavyweight cardstock in ecru, ivory, or white with black or dark grey engraving. Hire a calligrapher to hand write the envelopes.	Men's Formal Wear For black-tie and white-tie events, the men should wear tuxedos.  You may choose between full-dress with tails, a simple tux, or a dinner jacket. A cutaway jacket can be worn for a daytime affair.	Wedding Gown The wedding gown  should be a classy and simple A-line with a chapel or cathedral length train or a ballroom style gown of tulle. Pair with a long flowing veil  to match.	Bridesmaid Dresses The bridesmaids should don floor length, formal dresses.  Choose from striking and simple colors such as black, red, or silver. Accessorize with diamonds and pearls.	Setting A house of worship is ideal for a formal ceremony. A country club, mansion, museum, or high-end hotel with a touch of luxe will suit a formal wedding reception perfectly.

Food & Drink Classic martinis are key for cocktail hour, and a full sit-down dinner are a must-have. A raw bar, caviar,  and a great selection of fine wine andchampagne  are essential extras.	Flowers & Decorations Flickering candlelight on tables and lots of fresh flowers are essential to an elegant reception. If you are using a buffet instead of a sit-down dinner, get a fantastic ice sculpture  to highlight the table.	Music Nix the DJ. A live orchestra or band is more elegant for creating the ambiance in which to ballroom or swing dance. Choose traditional music by classic crooners such as Sinatra.	Gifts Classy gifts for guests include things such as splits of champagne,  truffles, or wine with personalized labels. For the bridal party, offer things like jewelry  for girls and cigars  for guys.	Getaway Car You have to ride in style to add the final touch to your formal wedding. Choose a classic Rolls Royce, a Bentley, or an extra long stretch limo in black.